It was as if they (the guys, at least) were just waiting for someone to ask. I went straight to the experts - a few sex therapists, lots of men. With this information gap in mind, I set out to discover what, exactly, makes for the most bone-rattling, foundation-shaking male orgasms, and what women can do to encourage their arrival. My guess is that the most women don't know this. What's weird is that, for all the attention it receives, the male orgasm doesn't get talked about in much detail despite the fact that there can be a huge difference in intensity from one to the next. Speaking as a male, I can't think of anything that remotely equals the thrill of an orgasm.